Helping your Teen Heal from a Broken Heart

05.05.24 09:00 AM - Comment(s) - By Lisa

The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it... ~ Nicholas Sparks

Dealing with a broken heart can be tough for teenagers, and as a parent, it’s natural to want to support them during this challenging time. 


Here are some helpful strategies to assist your teenager in coping with heartbreak:




  1. Give Them Space and Time:

    • Understand that there isn’t a specific timeline for recovering from heartbreak. Some teens bounce back quickly, while others take longer. Allow them the space and time they need to bounce back.
  2. Ask If They Want Advice or to Vent:

    • Teens may resist sharing their feelings if they think you’ll immediately give advice. Instead, let them vent. If you have advice, ask them first if they want it. 
  3. Suggest They Share Their Feelings with Someone:

    • Encourage your teenager to talk to someone, even if they don’t want to open up to you. Suggest friends, family members, or another supportive adult. It’s important for them to express their emotions and know that feeling sad, lonely, or anxious is completely normal during times of separation or rejection.
  4. Discuss Social Media:

    • Social media can add stress during heartbreak. Ask your teen about their experiences online. If it’s causing additional distress, consider suggesting a break or temporarily pausing certain accounts.
  5. Encourage Normal Routines:

    • Help your teen get back to their regular routines, including school, extracurricular activities, and family mealtimes. Routines provide comfort and a sense that life continues despite the heartache.
  6. Spend Quality Time Together:

    • Loneliness often accompanies a breakup. Engage in activities together, whether it’s going out or having fun at home. Show kindness and support without being overly parental or giving unsolicited advice. I made chocolate chip cookies at 1:00 AM to heal some of her pain. Moms always know what to do without necessarily being intrusive. 



Remember that heartbreak is a normal part of growing up, and it provides valuable lessons for your teenager’s emotional development. Be there for them, listen actively, and let them know they’re loved and supported. Encourage them to surround themselves with family and friends to help mend their heart. You’ve got this! 💙


~Xoxo Lisa

Lisa

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