How to Calmly Coach your Teenager with Driving

1. Let Them Take the First Step:

   • Some teens are eager to get behind the wheel as soon as they’re legally allowed, while others may feel more hesitant. Instead of pushing them solely based on their age, allow them to decide when they’re ready. Whether it means waiting a few extra months or learning at a slower pace, giving your teen time to build confidence gradually will make them a safer and calmer driver.

2. Be Careful & Calm as a Teacher:

   • When teaching your teen to drive, remember that you’re both a parent and a teacher. Keep your emotions in check and offer clear, succinct directions. Avoid getting overly emotional; instead, guide them step-by-step through maneuvers. Positive reinforcement goes a long way.

3. Start Them Off Slow:

   • The initial driving experiences can be overwhelming for your teen. Even though they’ve been passenger's countless times, being in control of a car feels different. Begin with quiet streets or empty parking lots to help them ease into driving. Gradually introduce more complex situations as their confidence grows.

4. Enroll Them in Driver’s Ed:

   • Formal driver’s education programs provide valuable knowledge and practice. Consider enrolling your teen in a reputable program to supplement your teaching efforts. You'll also likely get a discount on your car insurance rates too! 

5. Practice Road Awareness Together:

   • Spend time with your teen discussing road awareness. Teach them about blind spots, defensive driving, and anticipating other drivers’ actions. Practice identifying potential hazards during your drives together. Learn the rules too! Each State has their own rules that govern obtaining a learners permit through to a full driver's license. 

6. Be a Positive Role Model:

   • Your behavior behind the wheel influences your teen. Demonstrate safe driving practices, such as using turn signals, obeying speed limits, and maintaining a calm demeanor. They’ll learn from your example.

7. Make It an Adventure:

• Turn driving practice into an adventure. Explore different routes, visit scenic spots, and enjoy the journey. Encourage conversation during drives—it helps reduce stress and makes the experience more enjoyable.

Remember, patience and encouragement go a long way. Your teen is embarking on an important milestone, and your guidance will shape their driving habits for years to come.

-Lisa Xoxo