Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less. ~ C.S. Lewis
Teaching humility to children is essential for their character development, otherwise we all know those people who never learned to be grateful and never feel that they have enough. It's one thing to be determined to succeed at something, but it's another thing to never feel satisfied, even with small wins. It's also important to be able to admit when you're wrong.
Here are 10 ways you can instill this valuable trait in your kids:
Modeling: Never underestimate the power of teaching through example. Consistently model humility as a lifestyle, rather than an occasional display. Kids know when you are faking.
Build Them Up: Humility often arises from a position of belief, strength, and self-assurance. Encourage and help your child be the best they can be, regardless of the task.
Real Value Source: Make sure your children understand that their real value doesn’t come solely from achievements, looks, or abilities. They are inherently valuable simply because they are your child.
Avoid Humiliation: Humility cannot be imposed through humiliation. Never humiliate your kids. Instead, focus on positive reinforcement and constructive feedback.
Learn from Role Models: Expose your child to stories of great teachers and role models.
Teach Them to Serve: Encourage your child to serve others.
Coach Their Responses: Teach your child how to respond graciously. Role-play scenarios where they express gratitude, acknowledge others’ efforts, and avoid boastfulness.
Apologize Sincerely: The well-timed and sincere apology is a key component of humility. Teach your child to apologize when they’re wrong, overreach, or unintentionally cause harm.
Practice Gratitude: Teach them to give thanks. Gratitude fosters humility by recognizing the contributions of others and acknowledging blessings.
Desire Growth: Help your child see life through a lens of invitations rather than inconveniences. Cultivate a mindset that embraces learning, growth, and the endless possibilities to love others.
Remember, these lessons are lifelong, and consistency matters. By nurturing humility, you equip your children with a powerful tool for healthy relationships, empathy, and personal growth.
Xoxo ~Lisa