Teaching humility to children is essential for their character development, otherwise we all know those people who never learned to be grateful and never feel that they have enough. It's one thing to be determined to succeed at something, but it's another thing to never feel satisfied, even with small wins. It's also important to be able to admit when you're wrong. 

Here are 10 ways you can instill this valuable trait in your kids:

1. Modeling: Never underestimate the power of teaching through example. Consistently model humility as a lifestyle, rather than an occasional display. Kids know when you are faking. 

2. Build Them Up: Humility often arises from a position of belief, strength, and self-assurance. Encourage and help your child be the best they can be, regardless of the task. 

3. Real Value Source: Make sure your children understand that their real value doesn’t come solely from achievements, looks, or abilities. They are inherently valuable simply because they are your child. 

4. Avoid Humiliation: Humility cannot be imposed through humiliation. Never humiliate your kids. Instead, focus on positive reinforcement and constructive feedback. 

5. Learn from Role Models: Expose your child to stories of great teachers and role models. 

6. Teach Them to Serve: Encourage your child to serve others. 

7. Coach Their Responses: Teach your child how to respond graciously. Role-play scenarios where they express gratitude, acknowledge others’ efforts, and avoid boastfulness. 

8. Apologize Sincerely: The well-timed and sincere apology is a key component of humility. Teach your child to apologize when they’re wrong, overreach, or unintentionally cause harm. 

9. Practice Gratitude: Teach them to give thanks. Gratitude fosters humility by recognizing the contributions of others and acknowledging blessings. 

10. Desire Growth: Help your child see life through a lens of invitations rather than inconveniences. Cultivate a mindset that embraces learning, growth, and the endless possibilities to love others. 

Remember, these lessons are lifelong, and consistency matters. By nurturing humility, you equip your children with a powerful tool for healthy relationships, empathy, and personal growth.

Xoxo ~Lisa

It's that time of year!! So many of us struggle to decide what our kids will do over summer break when we are still working! Although mine is 16 and hopefully will be partially employed, there are many other moms out there that need age-specific ideas to spark imagination and create fun, lifelong summer memories. 

Here are some budget-friendly ideas for planning daycare and summer camps:

1. YMCA Summer Camps:

   • The YMCA offers over 1,400 day-camps nationwide. Prices vary by location and often cater to different income levels. They also provide scholarships and financial assistance to families in need. Check their website to find a camp near you.

2. Sur La Table Summer Cooking Classes:

   • Sur La Table offers 5-day cooking classes for kids aged 7 to 11 and teens 12 to 17. These classes focus on global flavors and baking. The cost is around $299 for the series.

3. Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts:

   • Both programs have affordable membership fees (about $25/year). They offer various activities, including day camps and overnight camps. Financial assistance is available.

4. Local Parks and Recreation Departments:

   • Check your local parks and rec department for low-cost summer programs. These may include swimming, sports leagues, arts and crafts, and more.

5. DIY Summer Camp at Home (especially if you are a remote-working mom in need of ideas):

   • Create your own summer camp with 'theme weeks' and hire a local teenager to help entertain them:
     • Art Camp: Explore colorful art projects.
     • Bricks Camp: Engage LEGO enthusiasts with science activities.
     • Chemistry Camp: Simple experiments to explore chemical reactions.
     • Outdoor Adventures: Backyard camping, scavenger hunts, and nature exploration.
     • Cooking Camp: Teach basic cooking skills.
     • Science Experiments: Fun and educational activities.
     • Crafting Creativity: DIY crafts and projects.
     • Sports and Games: Organize mini sports camps.
     • Water Activities: Beat the heat with water-based fun.

Remember, creativity and resourcefulness can make any summer camp enjoyable without breaking the bank! 

If you’re facing financial constraints and can’t afford daycare, there are several options you can explore to ensure your child is cared for while you work:

1. Childcare Financial Assistance Programs:

   • Many states and territories receive funding from the federal government to provide childcare financial assistance to families with low income. These programs, also known as vouchers, certificates, or subsidies, help cover the cost of childcare so parents can work or attend school. Eligibility requirements vary by state, so check your local childcare assistance program to see if you qualify.

2. Head Start and Early Head Start:

   • These programs prepare children from birth to age 5 for school and provide services to support early learning, mental well-being, and physical health. Head Start and Early Head Start are available at no cost to eligible families with low income. 

3. State-Funded Prekindergarten Programs:

   • Some states offer prekindergarten programs for children aged 3 to 5 years. These programs focus on preparing children for kindergarten and may be available to eligible families at low or no cost.

4. Military Childcare Financial Assistance:

   • If you’re a military family, there are specific programs to help you pay for childcare, regardless of where you’re stationed.

5. Local Nonprofit Options:

   • Explore nonprofit establishments in your community, such as local churches, YMCA, or community centers. These facilities often offer low- or no-cost childcare options for working parents. Nonprofit childcare centers can receive federal, state, and private grants, making them more affordable.

6. Sibling Discounts:

   • Some childcare programs offer discounts to families that enroll siblings. This could be a percentage off the weekly or monthly fee, waived registration fees, or other cost reductions.

Remember to research and inquire about available options in your area. It’s essential to find a solution that meets your child’s needs while also managing your budget effectively. 

Don't forget about our capable teenagers!! 

Teenagers having summer jobs can be a valuable experience for several reasons:

1. Financial Independence:

   • Summer jobs allow teenagers to earn their own money, which can teach them financial responsibility. They learn about budgeting, saving, and managing expenses.

2. Work Ethic and Responsibility:

   • Holding a job teaches teenagers the importance of punctuality, reliability, and commitment. They learn to meet deadlines, follow instructions, and work as part of a team.

3. Skill Development:

   • Summer jobs provide an opportunity to develop practical skills. Whether it’s working in retail, food service, or as a camp counselor, teenagers gain valuable experience that can benefit them in future careers.

4. Networking and Social Skills:

   • Interacting with colleagues, supervisors, and customers helps teenagers improve their communication skills. They learn how to navigate workplace dynamics and build professional relationships.

5. Time Management:

   • Balancing work, social life, and other commitments during summer jobs teaches teenagers effective time management. They learn to prioritize tasks and meet multiple responsibilities.

6. Career Exploration:

   • Summer jobs expose teenagers to different industries and roles. They can explore their interests and discover potential career paths. It’s a chance to learn what they enjoy and what they don’t.

7. Boosting College Applications:

   • Colleges and universities often appreciate applicants who have work experience. A summer job demonstrates initiative, responsibility, and a strong work ethic.

Remember, it’s essential to strike a balance. Teenagers should also have time for relaxation, hobbies, and spending time with family and friends. A summer job should enhance their growth without overwhelming them.

And for that middle-of-the-road age where they are either too old and bored with in-person camps or too young to work at their favorite store, there are remote job opportunities available for the 15–17-year-olds. Here are some options:

1. Customer Service Representative:

   • Some companies hire remote customer service representatives. These roles involve assisting customers via phone, chat, or email. Look for entry-level positions that require good communication skills and a positive attitude.

2. Appointment Generator:

   • Appointment setters help schedule appointments for businesses. It’s a great way to learn about sales and communication skills. Look for part-time positions that allow flexibility.

3. Tutoring:

   • If you excel in a particular subject, consider offering online tutoring services. You can help younger students with homework, test preparation, or specific subjects.

4. Production Assistant:

   • Some remote jobs involve assisting with production tasks, such as data entry, content creation, or managing digital files. Look for part-time roles that match your skills.

5. Sales Representative:

   • Some companies hire remote sales representatives. These roles involve promoting products or services and closing deals. Look for entry-level positions that offer training and commission-based pay.

6. Online Content Creator:

   • If you’re creative, consider starting a blog, YouTube channel, or social media account. Monetize your content through ads, sponsorships, or affiliate marketing.

7. Freelancing:

   • Explore freelance opportunities related to your skills. Whether it’s writing, photography, sculpting, baking, jewelry-design, graphic design, or programming, freelancing allows you to work remotely and build a portfolio.

8. Virtual Internships:

   • Some companies offer virtual internships for high school students. These provide exposure to various industries and allow you to gain practical experience.

9. Online Surveys and Market Research:

   • Participate in online surveys or market research studies. While the pay may not be substantial, it’s an easy way to earn a little extra money.

Remember to check the specific requirements for each job, as some may have age restrictions or require parental consent. 

Hopefully these are a few good leads to get you on your way for summer planning! Summer is right around the corner! Don't forget the SPF! 

-Ciao for now! Xoxo

-Lisa