The Working Mom - Blog by Lisa

When Motherhood Meets Medicine: The Untold Story Behind the White Coat

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 20:33:30 -0500

Pregnancy and the first year of motherhood are hard enough, but doing it while caring for patients, managing procedures, and answering pages? That’s next-level strength.

This isn’t just about balancing schedules. It’s about redefining success, setting boundaries, and finding grace in the chaos. It’s about pumping between hospital rounds, surviving night shifts with a newborn at home, and learning that “self-care” isn’t selfish, it’s survival.

If you’ve ever wondered:

How do I manage nausea during a 12-hour shift?
What’s the reality of postpartum recovery when your job requires stamina and precision?
How do I handle mom guilt when my pager goes off during bedtime?

…then you’re not alone. And you’re exactly who we wrote this for.

✨ Coming Soon: The second book in “A Working Mom Series"—Navigating Pregnancy Through Baby’s First Year as a Working Mom in Medicine.

Because you deserve honesty, humor, and practical strategies for every stage, from that positive test to baby’s first birthday.

Follow along for sneak peeks, real-life tips, and a roadmap for thriving in both roles. Mama, you’ve got this!!

Xoxo ~Lisa & Adrienne

Behind the Quiet: Growth, Grit, and Game-Changing Plans are on the Horizon

Mon, 08 Dec 2025 21:24:11 -0500

Because You Are Balancing More Than Most, And You Deserve The Support!

If you’ve been wondering why The Working Mom has gone radio silent, here’s the truth: we’ve both been writing AND reinventing our individual selves. Adrienne continues to compete internationally in Ballroom dance and is soon to redefine herself as the founder of The Towsen Clinic. Lisa is moving into Medicare consulting, partnering with major health systems to interpret new Medicare regulations, streamline processes, and help organizations adapt quickly without compromising patient care, while at the same time passing the stepwise Court of Master Sommelier examinations, and crawling her way back to the marathon running circuit. BUT, something else HUGE remains behind the scenes....

While the feed has been quiet, the keyboards have been anything but. For months, we’ve been writing, editing, and perfecting content that speaks directly to YOU, the working moms who juggle careers, family, and everything in between. And now, we’re thrilled to share what’s next:

Six brand-new books are coming your way, and they will be on shelves at Barnes & Noble by the end of 2026!

This isn’t just a book launch. It’s a movement. Each title is designed to empower, encourage, and equip you through every stage of motherhood while thriving in your professional life. From pregnancy to postpartum, and toddler chaos to teenage drama, these books are packed with real talk, practical strategies, and a dose of humor that only a working mom can appreciate.

We’ve poured our hearts into creating resources that feel like a friend, a mentor, and a cheerleader all in one. Because you deserve guidance that understands your world, the late nights, the early mornings, and the endless balancing act.

Stay tuned for sneak peeks, launch dates, and exclusive giveaways. The quiet is over. Big things are coming, and we can’t wait to share them with you. ♥ ♥

Happy Holidays!! Follow us for updates and be the first to know when the series drops!

~ Xoxo, Lisa & Adrienne

Save the Date!

Tue, 15 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0500

Join us Saturday September 20, 2025, at 2:00 pm

Barnes & Noble (Exton, PA) for our 1st public book signing!!

(King of Prussia and Philadelphia dates to be announced)

Click HERE to purchase your copy in advance!

You've laughed through the chaos. You've cried in the carpool lane. Now it's time to celebrate your survival and snag your signed copy of the book that actually gets you!

The first 20 customers to the store for either the purchase of our book or the signing of a previously purchased copy will receive a free signature "The Working Mom" mug!

You've juggled babies and burnout, now come celebrate YOU!! Our book is brutally honest, relatable, and accurate! Tag your #NurseBestie, your #Medmom, your #DrMom, or bring your PA/NP-bestie who rocks 3 side hustles and a diaper bag! Come as you are: scrubs, stilettos, or straight from your 3rd shift. We've got you!

Whether you're a nurse, an educator, a recovering PTA president, or just someone who's Googled, "How to fake organizational skills", this event is for you!

Come for the book, grab a cup of coffee from the in-store Starbucks, and stay for the truth bombs. Let's turn working mom guilt into power, one page at a time!!

We can't wait to see you!

~ Lisa & Adrienne

The Working Mom, LLC®

Working Mom Life: The Beautiful Chaos We Don't Talk About Enough

Sun, 25 May 2025 18:20:17 -0500

Countdown to our Book Launch!

Some days, you feel like a superhero balancing patient care, deadlines, and parenting wins like you were born for this. Other days? You're just trying to remember where you put your coffee, and praying no one notices you have mismatched Danskos on. This journey of being a working mom in healthcare is messy, exhausting, and absolutely worth it.

The Challenges:

🔥 Leaving home before the sun rises, knowing you won’t be the one to do morning snuggles.

🔥 Trying to be fully present for patients, even when your toddler did not sleep the night before.

🔥 The guilt—oh, the never-ending guilt—when work takes priority and you miss a milestone.

🔥 Mastering the art of speed-charting because daycare pickup is non-negotiable.

The Wins (Because We Need to Celebrate More!):

🌟 Using your skills to heal and help people, while still being the glue that holds your family together.

🌟 Watching your child learn strength, compassion, and resilience from seeing you work hard.

🌟 Finding a community of incredible, driven moms who remind you that you are not alone.

🌟 Finally, learning that success doesn’t mean doing it all perfectly, but doing the best you can, one day at a time.

Some days, I feel on top of the world. Some days, I just survive- but both days matter.

And that’s exactly why our upcoming book, Navigating the Lifecycle of Working Moms in Healthcare, exists—to help working moms in medicine thrive, despite the madness.

If you’ve ever felt stretched too thin, exhausted, or questioning how to make this work, this book is for you.

To all the working moms out there, especially in healthcare: You are doing enough. You are more than enough. 💛

What’s the biggest challenge (or win!) you’ve had as a working mom? Let’s remind each other we’re not alone in this.

With Much Love,

~Lisa.

#TheWorkingMom #HealthcareMoms #Leadership #BalanceIsNotAMyth #ThrivingNotSurviving #TheWorkingMomBook

90 Best Working Mom Blogs and Websites in 2025

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 12:00:00 -0500

The Working Mom LLC is ranked 22 and climbing!

FeedSpot's:

90 Best Working Mom Blogs and Websites in 2025!

After our first year in business as The Working Mom, LLC, we made this list.

We were ranked #88. Over the years we have risen little by little.

As of March 2025, we are currently ranked #22!

We beat out "Scary Mommy" that has 4.7 million Facebook followers (who is now ranked #32)!!!

Just goes to show that quality sometimes wins over quantity!

FeedSpot ranks the best 'Working Mom' websites and blogs from thousands on the web.

The websites are ranked by relevancy, authority, social media followers, & freshness!

We have momentum now and aren't going back! So put your seat belts on and get ready for the ride!

The Working Mom's upcoming book launch is coming soon.... "Navigating the Lifecycle of the Working Mom in Healthcare".

And don't forget to head to our website home page for the latest updates and promo codes for our Avaline wine and Hawaii Coffee Company affiliates!

Salute and stay tuned for more updates!

~Xoxo

The Working Mom

Embracing Self-Care While Living in a Stressful Environment

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 14:45:05 -0500

In the whirlwind of today’s fast-paced world, stress seems like an unwelcome but constant companion. Whether it's the demands of a high-pressure job, the chaos of family responsibilities, or the incessant buzz of technology, we find ourselves perpetually caught in the storm. But amidst the turbulence, the concept of self-care should be a reminder that we owe ourselves the kindness we so readily extend to and expect from others.

🌿Prioritizing Your Well-being🌿

First and foremost, self-care is not selfish—it's essential. Like the oxygen mask on an airplane, you must attend to your own needs before you can effectively care for those around you. Start by recognizing the signs of stress: irritability, fatigue, and even physical ailments. Acknowledging these signals is the first step towards taking control.

🌿Mindfulness and Meditation🌿

Incorporating mindfulness and meditation into your daily routine can act as a sanctuary from the external chaos. Even a few minutes of focused breathing can ground you, bringing a sense of calm and clarity. Apps and online resources can guide you through meditation practices, making it easier to cultivate this habit even in the busiest of schedules.

🌿Physical Activity🌿

Engaging in regular physical activity is another cornerstone of self-care. Whether it's a brisk walk, yoga, or an intense workout, exercise releases endorphins—nature’s stress relievers. Find an activity you enjoy and make it a non-negotiable part of your day.

🌿Setting Boundaries🌿

Establishing boundaries is crucial in managing stress. Learn to say no without guilt and set limits on work hours or social commitments. This creates space for personal time, allowing you to recharge and prevent burnout.

🌿Nourishing Your Body🌿

A balanced diet can significantly impact your stress levels. Prioritize nutritious foods that fuel your body and mind. Stay hydrated and avoid excessive caffeine or sugar, which can contribute to anxiety and mood swings.

🌿Connecting with Loved Ones🌿

Never underestimate the power of human connection. Spending quality time with loved ones provides emotional support and a sense of belonging. Sharing your feelings and concerns can lighten the emotional load, reminding you that you are not alone.

🌿Unplugging🌿

Lastly, give yourself permission to unplug. The digital age, while convenient, often exacerbates stress. Designate tech-free times during your day to engage in hobbies, read a book, or simply relax without the constant influx of information. Look for vacation destinations that also encourage unplugging.

Taking care of yourself in a stressful environment requires intentionality and dedication. It’s about creating a balance that allows you to thrive, not just survive. By embracing self-care, you equip yourself with the resilience needed to navigate life’s challenges with grace, purpose, and strength.

🌿Take a deep breath & remember, you are worthy of the care you give yourself🌿

Please feel free to share your thoughts or add any personal tips that have worked for you! We would love to hear from you!

-Xoxo

The Working Moms

Get Ready for the Working Moms Upcoming Book Launch!

Thu, 23 Jan 2025 13:00:00 -0500

Mother's Day 2025: The Working Mom LLC's 5th Anniversary!
More details coming soon!

Introducing: Navigating the Lifecycle of the Working Mom in Healthcare

A Working Mom® Series

Over the course of the next few weeks, we will provide tiny glimpses into our upcoming 1st book. We plan to release a series of books that will help our fellow working moms navigate the ups and downs of balancing successful careers in healthcare with raising a family (whether you are a surgeon, a midlevel practitioner, a dentist, a nurse, or any other much needed technician that we rely heavily on in our healthcare systems.

From tips and tricks for better organization, finance advice, quick meal ideas, nutrition and wellness advice, and pep talks when you need them most (because admit it, we all need those every once in a while).

We plan to release a series of books, in addition to grow our merchandise line, cultivating unique luxury products every mom will love, and design luxury destination seminars (that we are currently working with the American Medical Association) to obtain Category 1 CME for health and wellness lectures that can enhance not only our own lives, but also the lives of our family, friends, and patients.

So, when you are boarding your plane, Sonoma Valley-bound, for some anticipated collegial lectures, combined with relaxation, private yoga sessions, and incredibly crafted meals paired with local wines (if interested), know that you will return to your family and careers relaxed and recharged, with an arsenal of information intended to keep your mind and body balanced, while moving forward.

And when you start to feel that calm collected feeling start to fade……. you will then book your next trip! 😊

Future Trip Locations include:

*Monterey/Carmel/Napa/Sonoma (California)

*Sedona/Scottsdale (Arizona)

*Big Sky (Montana)

*Jackson Hole (Wyoming)

*Las Vegas/Lake Tahoe (Nevada)

*Key West (Florida)

*Charleston (South Carolina)

*Lake Placid (New York)

*San Antonio/Austin (Texas)

*New Orleans (Louisiana)

We can’t wait to have our community of healthcare working moms join us on this new adventure! So stay tuned, more to come soon!

Lisa & Adrienne

Happy January with Avaline Wines

Tue, 14 Jan 2025 22:53:20 -0500

Introducing: The Winter Edit

Cozy vibes, meet your new wine BFFs. This 9-bottle bundle is the move for fireside hangs, winter dinners, and staying warm with a glass in hand. It includes:

2- Red Blend

2- Riesling

2- Beaujolais

1-Sauvignon Blanc

2- Cabernet Sauvignon

Click Here for the link to your Jack Frosty January collection. It's currently on sale!

Don't forget to use the promo code: JAN15 at checkout to get an additional 15% off AND free shipping!

Saluti!

-Lisa & Adrienne

Top 9 Mom Gift Ideas for Early Holiday Shopping

Thu, 07 Nov 2024 20:24:36 -0500

Top 10 Gift Ideas for Working Moms

Every year as holidays approach, my daughter asks me what I want or need. Her love is all I need, but when she insists on giving a present, it makes me think, “What could I actually use?”. So here is my list of good choices when it comes to presenting gifts to your working mom:

1)A handmade coupon-book:

These are my favorite…. Over the years Magg’s has created a bunch of these. Ideas for this can be: “Coupon for 1 anytime hug”, “1 breakfast in bed coupon”, “Take the dog out without whining coupon”, “Make your bed without whining coupon”, “Water the plants coupon” etc etc…. you see where I’m going with this… The ideas are endless….

2) An engraved pen:

I do a lot of writing, so I cherish these. You can find these on-line everywhere now.

Here is a great on-line store with a wide variety of engraved pens….

Click here to order and see more styles: https://www.executivegiftshoppe.com/

3) Mother and child jewelry:

I found these on Amazon. They are perfectly priced not to break the bank:

Click here to order: Amazon.com: Silver-Plated You & Me Pendant Necklaces. ($18.30).

4) A unique watch:

.... (or even a new Apple watch band), so your working mom will always

know when it’s time to come home….

Click Here to Order: Best Mom Watch Band Compatible with Apple Watch -Amazon ($12.99)

Click Here to Order: Classic Engraved Womens Zebra Square Wood Watch With Pink Face/Swiss mvt (urbandesigner.co) ($62.98)

5) A candle:

.....that will remind your working mom of a stress-free place…. You can find nice candles almost anywhere: your local grocery store, department store, or on-line giants like Amazon and Yankee Candle Company.

Click here to order: Funny Mom Patience Candle Mom | Etsy ($19.95)

Click here to order: Funny Mom Candle-Etsy ($15.23)

6) A solid planner to keep everything organized:

Click here to order: Mom's Life Planner ($34.60 from Etsy)

7) Useful gadgets for the “tech-inspired” Moms:

Click here to order: Bluetooth Keyboard and Mouse Combo for iPad ($23.99) from Amazon.

8) Comfy Socks!

Moms like creature comforts. This is one of them….

Click here to order: Comfy socks for Mom

9) Chocolate:

Always a great choice! I found a website that highlights the 15 Best Chocolatiers in the World…. So you can take your pick….. Click here: 15 Best Chocolatier s In The World: Where To Find Amazing Chocolates:

10) Wine!!

Try our favorite wines from Avaline!

Avaline’s 2024 Holiday Collection

Avaline's newest 9-bottle collection is inspired by the European tradition of spending the winter holidays on the ski slopes. This is their most unique and varied selection yet, with 5 new wines produced by family-owned, organic vineyards in Italy, France, and Germany.

Includes 2 Prosecco, 2 Riesling, 2 Beaujolais, 2 Grenache and 1 Syrah.

https://avaline.pxf.io/c/5380441/2186038/22496 CLICK THE LINK TO ORDER!! The entire month of November is 20% OFF! No promo code needed!

Wishing everyone a happy and healthy upcoming holiday season!

-Love, Lisa & Adrienne!

Putting Patients First: A Call to Prioritize Care Over Corporate Greed

Thu, 26 Sep 2024 09:30:00 -0500

In today’s healthcare landscape, the tension between patient care and corporate profit has never been more palpable. As providers, we are often caught in the crossfire, striving to deliver the best possible care while navigating the pressures of a profit-driven system. But what if we could shift the focus back to where it belongs—on the patients?

The Current Landscape

Healthcare has increasingly become a business, with corporate interests often overshadowing patient needs. This shift has led to overworked staff, understaffed facilities, and patients who feel more like numbers than individuals. The Minnesota Nurses Association’s “Healing Greed Agenda” is a prime example of efforts to combat this trend, advocating for legislation that holds hospital executives accountable and prioritizes patient care.

Steps to Prioritize Patients

Advocate for Policy Changes: Support legislation that aims to curb corporate greed in healthcare. For instance, the proposed Corporate Crimes Against Health Care Act seeks to hold private equity executives accountable for actions that harm healthcare organizations. By backing such initiatives, we can push for a system that values patient care over profits. Write to your local and state representatives.

Empower Healthcare Workers: Frontline workers are the backbone of patient care. Ensuring they have a voice in decision-making processes and protecting them from retaliation when they advocate for patients is crucial. As working moms in healthcare, we need to use those diplomatic voices we have developed over the years, like when we are bargaining with our kids over 30 more minutes of play time.

Transparency in Executive Compensation: Shining a light on the often exorbitant salaries and bonuses of healthcare executives can help hold them accountable. Transparency can drive change by highlighting the disparity between executive pay and the resources allocated for patient care.

Community Engagement: Hospitals and healthcare providers should actively engage with the communities they serve. This includes investing in community health initiatives and ensuring that tax-exempt hospitals give back to their communities rather than funneling profits to executives.

Focus on Quality Care: At the heart of healthcare should be a commitment to quality care. This means adequate staffing, continuous training, and a culture that prioritizes patient outcomes over financial metrics.

As providers, we have a moral and ethical obligation to place our patients above corporate greed. By advocating for policy changes, empowering healthcare workers, demanding transparency, engaging with our communities, and focusing on quality care, we can begin to shift the balance back in favor of those who matter most—our patients. Together, we can create a healthcare system that truly puts patients first.